24 Weird Things Girls ALWAYS Notice …That Guys Are Oblivious To

May 9, 2025
Women are more perceptive than men. Many times, men are oblivious to things that women pay attention to.  As men, we overlook other men’s booties, when their breath smells nice, or when their hands and cuticles are moisturized.

We may not notice these things, but the spicy senorita never misses them. That being said, I want to go over some weird things that women always see that we men ignore.

Women pay attention — like a hawk!

  1. If you’re a cat guy, super into cats, and constantly post pictures of them, this makes women squeamish because cat dudes are a little weird. I’m not, but most dudes are.
  2. Your manners. When you’re going out to eat and you’re eating like a filthy animal or talking with your mouth full, this is a deal-breaker. Many guys don’t pay attention to these aspects, but women notice how you eat.
  3. Checking out other women—we guys don’t even pay attention to this. Women, though, never miss it. If you’re checking out a sexy senorita walking in, don’t. You should not even peek.
  4. How you talk about your ex-girlfriend. How you talk about your ex-girlfriend can be a deal-breaker if you talk trash about them in public. Your ex-girlfriend might be Satan, but it’s a red flag to a woman how you speak about her. She notices.
  5. How you speak about your mother. Women are perceptive and will pick up on how you talk about your mother.
  6. How you treat servers and wait staff. You better not be a jerk who is demeaning or demoralizing because she’s paying attention. Men might not pick up on this, but she never misses it.
  7. Dirty sheets. She will notice if your bed is filthy and nasty.
  8. Your bathroom. Make sure your toilet is not a splattered mess. If it is, it will be game over. Make sure it’s clean, and you take the time to do little things to make her excited.
  9. Your hygiene. She will notice how you smell and if you have a big man bush. She’ll see if your ears are dirty and if you have nose hair.
  10. Your scent. Make sure you smell good because she’ll never miss noticing that. If you smell great, you’ll be more attractive. Wear an intoxicating fragrance, such as Gisada Ambassador. Use code alpham20 to take 20% OFF your entire order.
  11. Your clothing. Make sure you are clean, smell good, and your clothes fit your body. What you wear says a lot about you, and women notice.
  12. Your shoes. Make sure your shoes are not beat up and ugly. Do not wear boring and basic either. Your shoes say a lot about you, and women notice.
  13. Your pants. Make sure your pants are not hanging off your booty. Women like a firm and round booty.
  14. Your forearms. Women notice your forearms, so expose a little skin.
  15. Your hands. Women never miss your hands, and if they’re dirty and nasty, it’s a deal-breaker. Ensure your nails are clean and your cuticles are fresh, not picked and bleeding.
  16. Your toes. If you’re wearing open-toed shoes, you cannot have nasty toes. It’s a big deal breaker.
  17. Your breath. We dudes are not getting close enough to other dudes to smell their breath or their balls. But it matters.
  18. Teeth. You need to have a white smile. It doesn’t need to be perfect-looking, but it should be white.
  19. Hairline. She notices your hair and hairline, so make sure it’s not oily, greasy, or flaky.
  20. How you present yourself. She notices your posture, how you stand, how you sit, how you make eye contact, and how you shake her hand.
  21. How you speak with her. Do not be demeaning or poke fun at her intelligence. She will notice if you make her feel like she’s not valued or validated.
  22. How much do you talk about sex? She will notice when you speak about p^rn. You cannot joke around about these things. She will not be interested in getting sexy with you if you’re overly or overtly sexual or constantly talking about it. It’s a huge turn-off.
  23. Your voice. Women pay attention to what your voice sounds like.
  24. How are you in the kitchen? Can you cook and clean up after yourself? Cook her dinner, and she will notice.
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