I don’t think many people would actually admit this out loud, but I’m going to! I hope that every single one of my exes regrets losing me. I can hear it now: “You’re so petty and immature.” Whatever. I’m just willing to say it! You all are thinking it, so don’t even act like you’re not. I know that each and every one of you deep down does. It’s not that you want them back, and it’s not that you have any hard feelings or want their lives to be miserable. You just want to let them know that you were the best thing they ever had.
All of these steps I am about to give you are about making you better than you were before. But the one thing that I want to also talk about is happiness. The one thing that you can do to make someone regret not being with you is LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE. Live happily! What happiness looks like to you is a question only you can answer. It’s not up to other people to decide what happiness means to you — you need to figure out what makes you happy and fulfills you. Then, find a way to do that. Sure, you’ll have struggles even when you’re happy, but when you have an inner joy & glow and when you’re living life on your own terms, life simply feels better.
Ensure that she’s disappointed you’re no longer around
- Stop being self-destructive — get your sh!t together if you are having a tough time dealing with your past. Own it and do the work to be happy. You’ll never have a successful relationship until you own your own sh!t.
- Have a sexy body — when 99% of other men are developing man boobies and dad bods, your ass should be at the gym working out. Make yourself look better now than you did 10, 15, 20 years ago. Take control of your body.
- Be financially awesome — this doesn’t mean having a ton of cash now, but in the future, that is the goal. It’s critical to set a budget now and live below your means. Take any excess cash and invest it.
- Do more fun stuff — go out and explore, take trips and vacations, and do stuff. Then, post your adventures on social media.
- Be more stylish — if you want to quickly and instantly make her think “damn” about you, look better now. Start dressing better, get a fresh haircut, groom your beard if you have one, and upgrade & elevate your grooming game. Grow a little badass rugged 5 o’clock shadow beard — suddenly she’ll see you looking like a bad boy.
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