TOP 10 Questions to Start a Conversation With a Woman! {EASY OPENERS}

June 11, 2021
“Do you like turtles? I like turtles.” The ability to start conversations is a super power. And if you can do it with a spicy senorita, even better! Practice on people who you are not trying to impress; simply engage people to practice, because the more you practice, the easier it’s going to be. It will end up free flowing.

Easy ways to start conversations

  1. Ask for a restaurant recommendation — this question is low pressure and an easy way to get the conversation started. You’ll get a question back, and it’s an amazing way to learn about the person.
  2. Ask if they’ve been here/there before and what they recommend — the person can give their opinion, and you can follow-up with other questions.
  3. Ask about the location (are you from around here, did you grow up around here, do you live here) — then you can ask follow-up questions which lets them go deep about the area.
  4. At an event or party, ask how they know the host or another attendee — easy and low pressure.
  5. Ask if they are glad that it’s Friday — direct and follow-up questions flow easily.
  6. Ask about their music — music is an easy way to connect to someone.
  7. Ask what’s on the agenda today/weekend — the word ‘agenda’ quirky, playful, and fun.
  8. Ask what their story is — you will see them smile as it’s playful. And the cool thing is they’ll take it to whereever they want to go.
  9. Give someone a compliment (what they are wearing or doing but nothing about them physically) — instantly this person will like you more and also make them feel better about themselves.
  10. Ask if you know each other, met before, or know you from — it’s the perfect time to introduce yourself and ask them their name.

Deeper questions

  • Ask what is their best quality or trait — you can then follow-up what is their worst quality or trait. They’ll get talking about themselves.
  • Ask who they respect the most — this person could be someone they know personally or even someone famous.
  • Ask if they had unlimited money, what would they do with it.
  • Ask what is the best gift they have ever received — the answer will give a sneak peek into their past, and it’s about connecting with a positive emotion.
  • Ask what is their most amazing accomplishment or most proud of achieving — you can find out what they value and what they’ve accomplished.


Go to for 15% off your order! These wireless earbuds are AMAZING!


Featured video

The greatest grooming tool for men (and women) ever created is here! Introducing the STUBBLE BUDDY – the beard and manscaping clean-up tool that makes getting rid of the mess a total breeze. This tool, gents, is a relationship-saver!

Join 200,000+ email subscribers

getting exclusive advice every week

Connect With Me

My home with over 6 million subscribers

Follow for daily updates

Don’t expect any dancing!

Come say ‘hi’ on Facebook

Tweet along with me

Join my Facebook group

Listen to the alpha m. Podcast

6 million + YouTube subscribers, 1 billion + views.

Follow me on


Aaron Marino (alpha m.) is the number 1 men’s lifestyle influencer with over 8 million followers combined across multiple social media channels.

On this website you’ll find all of alpha m’s content alongside more information about his businesses.

© 2021 I Am Alpha M. All Rights Reserved.