To be a 1% boyfriend or husband, remember the following ten qualities and actions that she will not directly tell you she wants. Women are crazy, so I will fill you in because I’ve been with my wife for 20 years, and it hasn’t been all roses and BJ’s.
Relationships are hard, but you have to choose what hard you want. Do you want a healthy, loving, and amazing relationship? If you want to be with this person and grow together, you must do these things regularly to make her happy.
She won’t tell you, but now you know she wants you to:
- Stop trying to fix sh!t. I’m not talking about the toilet. I’m talking about her problems. When she comes to you with her issues, we, as dudes, try to fix the problem. Women don’t want you to solve their problems a lot of the time. They want you to listen, be compassionate, and validate their feelings. If she wants you to solve a problem, she will directly ask if you know how to do this or if should she do that.
- Be validating. She wants you to validate her by saying you understand or that she’s not wrong, even if you disagree. She wants to know you’re listening and that you hear. You need to say that you’re sorry about the situation and that it must have sucked.
- Be noble. She doesn’t want you to be a scumbag or tell you what or what not to do. She wants you to be chivalrous and respect her at all times. The real test is how you respect her and the relationship when you’re not in her presence.
- Be trustworthy. If she can’t trust you, your life will be hell. Once trust is broken, it’s impossible to get it back, and once trust is gone, a relationship is over.
- Communicate. You need to be able to communicate openly and honestly, creating a bond and a connection. You need to be willing to relay your deepest and darkest self. Be vulnerable.
- Slow down. Before you get to the bedroom, building anticipation and intention starts earlier in the day. Tell her she is sassy and sexy. Nibble on her ear. It’s about naughty talk. You also need to go downtown and visit Brenda. Women are like spicy sports cars; you don’t get in and pop that bad boy into 5th gear. Also, if you are experiencing ED, see if Ro Sparks is right for you.
- Take care of yourself. Being physically attractive means not being sloppy, fat, or having a dad-bod. She wants you to take care of yourself and take pride in your appearance, which includes style, grooming, and self-care. Put in the time and effort, and do not be lazy.
- Chip in around the house. It’s not her job or responsibility to pick up after you or clean & take care of the house. Help her.
- Keep dating. Relationships get stale and stagnant, and couples stop trying. If you want your relationship to thrive, consistently put in the effort. Plan dates and surprises. Buy things for her and let her know you’re thinking about her. Ensure you notice when she’s been to the salon or bought new shoes. Make her feel beautiful.
- Remember special occasions and small details. Use your calendar so that you don’t forget important dates such as anniversaries and birthdays. Remembering these dates shows that you care and are attentive. Set your alerts for five days out for every holiday, event, birthday, and special occasion. Men and women are different, and these things are a priority to her.
