If You Do THESE 7 Things… You’re Better than 99% of Men {According to Women}

August 26, 2025
Most men think they’re amazing in the bedroom. However, the reality is quite different from that. Most men are forgettable, but the good news is that you can be better the 99% of other men. If you do what I mentioned in this video, you will be a rockstar in the bedroom.

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What needs to be done in the bedroom and beyond

  1. Foreplay. If foreplay isn’t your thing, you’re just lazy. You’ll always be terrible in bed. Foreplay doesn’t mean you have to go downtown. It’s a lot more than that. Four players like preheating the oven, and you have to exercise patience. Men are just ready, but women have to build up.
  2. Make it about her. Read her body language and vibe. All women are not the same, so you need to understand what she’s reacting to and what she enjoys.
  3. Being in good physical condition. You need to have stamina and be physically attractive. Take care of yourself.
  4. Take control. Don’t ask, take control. Women want men to be the dominant player in this situation. Don’t be passive.
  5. It’s not a race. It’s not a race to see who finishes first. Slow down. If you genuinely want to be a man among men, you need to slow it down because it’s not a race.
  6. Use your words. Silence isn’t sexy. Words create desire; use your words like a weapon. Tell her what you want, and ask her what she likes. It’s about control, and it makes the process passionate and enjoyable.
  7. Be there afterward. Don’t disappear right after you’re done. You want her to be addicted to you, and this is where bonding a connection happened., touch, and talk.

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